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❤️🌟 Thank you Olivia Kimbrough for sharing the following story about your personal journey as a Special Needs Mom. Your transparency and strength touch us deeply! Your family is beautiful and we honor you all. SNS 🌟❤️
When Thomas was a baby (4 months old) my mother Juanita Zenquis Steelman and I noticed that something was different about him. Thomas would tense up and shiver as if he was cold. I did not know exactly what was going on, so I wrapped him in his blanket and rocked him to sleep. As soon as I comforted him he stopped shivering so I laid him in his crib. My mom told me that what she saw looked like seizures. I made Thomas a doctor’s appointment to be checked out. At his appointment he started tensing up and his hands started jerking in slow motion. His doctor jumped up and told us that we had to go straight to the hospital and said there would be a room ready for him. When we got to the hospital there was already nurses and a few doctors in the room and of course my husband and I were panicking.
After a few hours of monitoring him, the doctors came back into the room and informed us that he was having seizures. They started him on medication to see if it helped. As the day went on Thomas continued to have these “seizures”. After running a whole bunch of tests and being admitted for 3 days the doctors finally had (what they thought were) answers. They diagnosed Thomas with Microcephaly (abnormal size head), Dandy Walker Variant Syndrome, and seizures. They handed me his discharge papers and sent me on my way. Here I am trying to get myself together for baby Thomas, but something just did not sit well with me so I reached out to different doctors for a second opinion. I was told to give it sometime for the medication to work and if I did not see a difference they wanted me to bring Thomas back in. A few weeks went by and the spells started to get worse. So my husband and I took Thomas to the hospital and they admitted him once again. They repeated the tests and this time his diagnosis was different. They said that it was not seizures and diagnosed him with Dystonia.
Dystonia is a state of abnormal muscle tone resulting in muscular spasm and abnormal posture, typically due to neurological disease or a side effect of drug therapy. I was told that there was no cure, but medication could possibly help. My heart dropped after hearing that. Months went by and we noticed that he wasn’t doing what kids typically should be doing at his age. He wasn’t talking or walking .We were told that he would more than likely need a walker in the future. As of now he has to wear a helmet to prevent him from hurting himself when going into one of the Dystonia spells.
With all of that being said Thomas is now 2 years old and he has physical therapy, speech therapy, and occupational therapy. Thomas does sign language and is currently in school doing great.
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